Wednesday, July 22, 2009

A vision in white...

Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Psalm 51:10
On rare occasions, one is able to gather extended family members in one place at one time when all present are in good moods and agreeable to photo-taking. I was privileged to be the photographer on one such recent, rare occasion! It was truly a magical summer evening. The sunlight was just right. The subjects were happy - even, for the most part, the hesitant brother. The grass was green (probably thanks to the goose poop that served as fertilizer!). The air was warm and the breeze was soft. The results are below!



Awww...those are grandparents looking on in the background!


Stepping strategically to avoid the aforementioned goose poop!


Blessings to this happy family!

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Happy Birthday to You

"He will be the sure foundation for your times, a rich store of salvation and wisdom and knowledge; the fear of the Lord is the key to this treasure."  Isaiah 33:6

I had the pleasure of photographing this family recently!  They were so much fun.  For the better part of an hour, I got to witness and capture the affection they share.  They are blessed in so many ways.  I have so much admiration for this couple and their growing family.  They are so wise and their foundation is so sure!  






Thursday, June 18, 2009

Pretty in Pink (and white and red)


Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. 
(Ephesians 4:32 NIV)

The picture below is of my "godson" and I like to think of myself as his "fairy godmother."  He is very dear to me...and I have vivid memories of him as a very tiny baby, curled up for a photo on top of a stack of fluffy white towels.  Now, he's a young lad with freckles and tousled hair.  He is still an affectionate one and I pray he stays that way.  It's been a joy to watch him grow over the years, as he became a big brother to a brother and then a sister.  It was an honor to photograph him and his whole family - three generations - a couple of weeks ago.  

Here are three generations...Mother, daughter, and granddaughter.  
See his freckles??  Those blue eyes?  That dimple?  What a prince.
I think Poppy might be his favorite.  They steal quick, quiet moments together.
A super-sweet daddy-daughter photo. 

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Derek & Amy


Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.  Ephesians 4:2






Wednesday, May 20, 2009

John & April

Love is patient, love is kind.

It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.

It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,

it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.

It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails.

I Corinthians 12-13













Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Haiti Journal - Thursday, March 26, 2009







Today was our last work day.  We have accomplished so much!  The whole basketball court and all 3 hoops are up.  We even had Pastor Manno shoot the first basket (which he made on his first attempt) (see photo above).  Three soccer camps today and all the donated clothing and soccer equipment was given away.  6th grade students were in testing today...I took a quick photo of a classroom (see above).  You'll note that the students were wearing different uniforms.  That's because students from many different schools came to Pillatre today for their tests.  This was a practice test to help them prepare for the final test in June that will decide if they get to pass 6th grade.

We also had soccer cleats to give away today.  It was very difficult to decide which children would get the shoes.  There were only 11 pairs.  Some larger sizes, some very small, and most in the middle.  With the first group of very small children, I walked up and down the rows and took a look at the shoes they already had.  There was a boy in beat up Nike sandals.  And, when I say beat up, what I mean is that the soles were completely worn through at the heels.  He was my first choice.  I thought he looked 5 or so years old, but the Haitian kiddos all look smaller than American children their age--so he was probably 6. Then, I saw a girl in purple sandals and her toes were hanging over the tops.  She was maybe 4. 

I quickly picked out one more child and while the main body of kids filed out the door, I took those three by the hands and stood to the side.  One of the Haitian teachers came over and tried to make the children go, but I gestured that they were to stay.  I led the first boy to a chair and had him sit.  I smiled and him and sized up his little feet.  I made a guess as to what pair would fit him--and was right!  They were perfect.  I brushed off the bottoms of his feet with my hands and undid the laces of the shoes so that his feet would slide in.  I tightened the laces and tied a bow.  He smiled and said something excitedly to the other two children.  I smiled at him, kissed my hands and patted his shoes.  "Bendzye bene ou!" I said (God bless you).  He said, "Mesi!" and hopped down from the chair.  I put his old shoes in a plastic bag and let him take them home.  Then, it was the little girl's turn.  She sat down and I took off her sandals, the velcro was barely holding.  I brushed off her feet and put on a pair of white socks.  Then, I picked out a pair of cleats for her.  They were too small--too hard to get on.  So, I tried another pair and they were just right.  She smiled as I put on both shoes and tightened and tied the laces.  I hugger her tight and said "Bendzye bene ou!" to her, too.  She thanked me and I took her picture (above) in her new shoes before she took her old shoes in a bag.  I followed the same procedure for the the third child, a little boy.  He was equally excited and grateful.  Tears streamed down my cheeks the whole time I fitted those three for shoes.  I wasn't crying--I was elated.  And yet, I couldn't stop the tears amid my smile.  It was a very humbling experience.  I longed to be able to show the people who made those donations just how happy they had made these adorable little kids.  

When it was time for the middle-graders' camp at 10:30, I decided to play, too.  I played with the boys first and I think they were impressed.  I schooled them all.  I kicked corner kicks to a group of them and they took shots on goal.  Several of them took turns being goalie.  It was so fun!  I had been hesitant to join in the play until today because I didn't want to turn an ankle or something and be out of commission for the week.  (It wouldn't have been hard to do, given the rocks and divots in the field.)  But today was the last day, so I was in.  I played a game or two with the girls, too, which was fun.  They weren't afraid to get physical with me!  I got elbowed, shoved, and several girls tried to trip me.  I pushed and elbowed right back.  It was all in fun. They liked to see me score and cheered for me.  We played for over an hour!  

When everyone was tired, they began to straggle off the field.  There was a toddler who stood just off the field where his older sister was playing and suddenly, the ball came at him and a crowd of girls trampled him.  They went off down the field, leaving him in tears and screaming. I walked over and scooped him up, patting his back and wiping his tears.  I rocked with him and soothed him until he stopped crying.  Then, I carried him over to a shady spot under a tree and sat down with him.  Soon, a few other children gathered, too, including a girl who was the same size and build as my daughter.  They were all so sweet.  I took their picture and let them see themselves on the display.  They are amazed by cameras because they rarely see themselves in photos. Then, they began inspecting and grooming me.  One girl picked the dirt from under my fingernails with her own dirty fingers and a boy scratched the streaks of mud that had dried on my legs.  They are so fascinated by my sunburned, mosquito bitten skin.  They touch each red, swollen bite mark (there are so many!).  They also like my blonde hair and green eyes.  They run their little fingers through my hair and take my face in their hands to get a close look.  One little girl was worried about the sunburn on the back of my neck, and kept trying to pull my shirt collar up over it to shield my skin.  

I gave away barrettes that I brought from home today, too.  Oh, and they LOVE to blow my whistle!  I gave one of my whistles to a Haitian woman who had helped us a lot with the soccer camps and another to Willem, a teacher who also helped.

The older boys showed up again today for another game.  Omar is my friend.  They all show me a lot of respect and call me "Coach."  Today, during the second half of their game, there was a hand ball.  Suddenly, all the players were yelling--there was a heated debate about something...  And they turned to me and motioned insistently for me to come onto the field.  I thought it was a pretty obvious foul, so at first I told them to work it out.  But, they were insistent.  Two of them came over and pulled me onto the field.  My heart was pounding so hard!  I wasn't afraid, exactly, but definitely intimidated.  I didn't want to get stuck in the middle of a crowd of 20 angry Haitian men!  They had been playing intensely and aggressively, so they were really worked up.  There was even a large crowd that had gathered to watch!  

So, there I was in the middle of the field, trying to figure out what these young men were shouting about.  After a few minutes, I realized that they were arguing over whether the hand ball took place INside or OUTside of the penalty box (which wasn't marked).  They wanted ME to make a call.  Since the field was so small, I decided it was outside the penalty box and said so.  I awarded a penalty kick and the argument was over.  They lined up the kick as I left the field, my heart still pounding.  The kick did NOT result in a goal...whew.  A few people later commented that they had showed a great deal of respect for me in that situation--and had held me in high esteem.  Imagine that!  

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Haiti Journal - Wednesday, March 25, 2009







6:42 am   
Rain.  All night.  Barking.  All night.  In fact, I'm fairly certain that at least one dog was devoured by the others last night.  I woke up with a start last night to the gnarly sounds of a vicious dog fight outside my window.  Alyssa was wide awake with me!  We both just stared into the darkness until it was over.  Then, we awoke again later to sweeping on the street outside at 4:30 am.  I am tired.

6:38 pm
I love singing Bible songs with the first campers of the day.  I do my best to sing the words in Creole, and the little ones correct me.  I love to sit near them and hold dance with them.  I love to hear their collective, tiny voices echoing off of the church walls.  They come to camp hungry.   Hungry for lots of things, but hungry for food.  It it so satisfying to feed them...to watch them eat...and to see them perk up with energy soon after.

The second soccer camp of the day went so much better today!  The middle grades learned their lesson, I think.  Getting to play today was a good motivator for good behavior.  They stayed off the fields until 10:30 am when it was their turn.  This allowed us to really focus our attention on the littlest kids.  The toddlers stayed in the church for songs and games, so for the first camp, we really only had preschoolers through 1st grade.  It was perfect.  They did passing games and even got to practice taking shots on goal.  Then, when it was time for the second camp, the children stayed organized and listened.  We skipped any type of drills for the second group and went straight to setting up teams and games on two fields.  One field for the boys and the other for the girls.  The girls were so excited to have their own field, their own teams, their own ball.  I stood between the two fields and tried to referee both simultaneously.  The boys seem to disregard any out-of-bounds markers, and so their play often spills over onto the girls' field...until I chase them off (unless the girls on the field get to them first). 

There are many more boys than girls.  Many girls don't want to play soccer.  They stay on the sidelines or sit under trees and play clapping games.  Still, both of the fields are crowded.  

I did not get to go on a walk into Pillatre with Parice today.  Instead, I served as referee for a soccer game for the high school/university boys.  They played on the larger field - 9 v 9.  They were mostly the same young men who played Monday afternoon.  My friend, Omar, from Monday, was back.  He said that they all had late classes yesterday and that was why they weren't around.  No late classes today, though, and they were anxious to get on the field.  They played shirts & skins today.  They are very slender, and yet, very muscular.   

Omar speaks English very well.  Today, I told him to tell the teams that the winners would receive soccer jerseys (that were donated by American.  This inspired more intense and aggressive play than Monday's game.  The trickiest part was that the concrete for the basketball court was still being poured...about 10 feet behind one of the goals.  I am certain that the players understood what I was saying when I explained that the ball could NOT be kicked into the drying concrete.  But, I suppose it was inevitable.  The ball sailed into or skimmed across the soon-to-be court 3 times.  Yet, the men working on the court let us have the ball back each time - miraculously. 

They played two 30 minute halves again today, and when the time ran out, they were tied 7 - 7. I put another 5 minutes on the clock and finally, the skins team won.  We took a team photo, but not before there was a crazy MOB of young men grabbing for their prize jerseys!  I came out of the mob unscathed, and recounted the best plays of the game with Omar and a few others. (Apparently, when they go to university, many students learn English, because several of the young men from this 3rd camp of the day spoke it very well.)

I am still on a high from that game.  It was exhilarating.  It was awesome to watch.  My first Haitian football game!  I am exhausted.

Somewhere during the day we also sorted through the bags and bags of donated clothing, dividing them into piles for women, men, boys, and girls.  I was able to see the medical clinic close up.  The doctors and nurses there take any and all patients and deal with all kinds of illnesses and issues.  There are surgeons who make visits to the clinic, too.  Oh, and I learned that they do not use anesthesia for their surgeries.  Ever.  It's just too hard to obtain and too risky to administer.  Think for a minute about the last time you...had a tooth pulled?  Had a lump in a breast removed?  Had your tonsils taken out?  Had an appendix removed?  Ok, I'll stop.  You get the point.  Ouch.  Haitians are tough.  We Americans are wimpy.

God is opening my eyes.  It's just what I prayed for.  I am here reaching, touching these forgotten people.  I see their desperation and brokenness.  Their hunger and beauty.  Their kindness and humor.  Their hope and joy.  I love them.  I see them.  I hear them.  This whole world I never knew.  They matter.  God sees their suffering and hears their cries of agony and their songs of praise.  And, He sent me to be a love letter to them.